Where will the Vazquezes go?
Posted by
Rich Harwood
Oct 6, 2009
I had planned to write today about how so many
pundits are now pronouncing President Obama’s
presidency in danger of coming apart at the
seams; but, then I read a piece in The
Washington Post this morning that brought me
back to a more-grounded reality. It was about a
Virginia family’s slide from middle class to
a homeless shelter. I ask you: Isn’t this
what we should be focusing on?
The
article
chronicles the lives of Ron and Yolanda Vazquez
and their three children, who have fallen
upon hard times. Ron is an engineer who lost
his job months ago; his wife, Yolanda, a
part-time property manager. They were evicted
from their three-bedroom townhouse and are now
in their second shelter. Tomorrow, their time
at this shelter runs out, too, and they’ll
need to move yet again.
The plight of
Vazquezes is not uncommon these days. According
shelter managers quoted in the Post’s story,
they’re seeing schoolteachers, computer
technicians, and interior designers come
through their doors, not to mention lawyers and
mortgage bankers, among others. Like so many
families, the Vazquezes never envisioned
themselves living in a homeless shelter, five
people in one bedroom. But there they are.
So many families are anxiously
exhausting their options just to stay together,
running through their savings and retirement
income, staying with relatives, searching for
new jobs, while watching their lives implode,
without much power to improve their
circumstance.
I have written before about people
living on the edge, and how easy it is for
people to find themselves slowly, but surely,
sliding across the invisible line from normalcy
to nightmare. I am reminded, once more, of my
time working in a mental health crisis center
and seeing people live out such nightmares –
one day they were at work or in school, and the
next day their lives had seemingly crumbled.
In our society, stories like that of
the Vazquezes come and go. They’re often used
by politicians to score points, or by
newspapers and television stations to gain our
interest; but tomorrow, when we move on to the
next story, the Vazquezes will be packing their
bags and moving their family, still entangled
in a seemingly never-ending story. Their pain,
their sorrow, their sense humiliation and anger
will remain with them. They cannot shake it.
I must admit that I like reading
stories about politics and what’s happening,
even those silly stories about who is up and
who is down. But the truth is that my heart and
devotion is with the Vazquezes, and others like
them.
As it happens, tomorrow, as the
Vazquezes pack up their family, I will also
pack my bags to go meet with teams from three
communities that are part of our Kellogg
Initiative focused on vulnerable children and
families. The difference is that I know where
my trip will lead me; but what about the
Vazquezes?